Ever sent a message on Instagram and instantly regretted it? Maybe it was a typo. Maybe it went to the wrong person. Or maybe… you were just having one of those oops moments. Good news — Instagram has a magic trick called “unsend.”
But wait — if you unsend a message, does Instagram tell the other person? Do they get a notification? Does it vanish like it never existed?
Relax! We’re breaking it all down for you in a fun and simple way.
What Exactly Happens When You Unsend a Message?
When you send a message on Instagram and change your mind, you can press and hold the message and tap on “Unsend.” Poof! It’s gone from both sides of the chat.

Sounds like a secret agent move, right? But what actually happens behind the scenes when you do that?
- The message will disappear from your chat history.
- It also disappears from the other person’s chat.
- They won’t get a notification that says you unsent something.
So to answer the big question: No, Instagram does not notify the other person when you unsend a message.
But… Can They Still See It?
This is where it gets a little tricky.
If the person is already in the chat and they read the message before you unsend it, then yes, they already saw it. You can’t unsee what someone’s already seen, right?
Also, if they have notifications turned on, and your message popped up before you removed it — well, they might have caught it there too.
Here are a few times when your message might still leave a trace:
- If the message was read before being unsent
- If it appeared in push notifications before being removed
- If a screenshot was taken super quickly
You gotta be fast like lightning if you want to grab it before they do!
Does Instagram Keep a Record?
Instagram doesn’t save unsent messages in your chat history, and the other person can’t see them once they’ve been unsent.
But! Instagram’s servers might hold onto unsent messages temporarily (you know, for safety and report reasons).
Still, this isn’t something you need to worry about unless you’re doing something… let’s just say… suspicious.
How to Unsend a Message on Instagram
It’s super easy. Here’s the step-by-step:
- Open your Instagram DMs.
- Find the message you want to remove.
- Tap and hold the message.
- Tap “Unsend.”
- Done! Message vanished like magic.

Can You Unsend Images & Videos Too?
Yep! You can unsend photos and videos the same way you unsend text messages.
Same rules apply — if they’ve seen it already, you can’t erase it from their brain. But the physical message will be gone from the chat.
What About Group Chats?
Ah yes — group chats! The unsend rule is the same.
If you unsend a message in a group, it disappears for everyone. No one gets a notification, but again… if they were quick, they might have seen it before it ran off.
Timing is everything!
Final Thoughts
If you’re worried about a late-night confession, an accidental emoji, or a message sent to the wrong Sarah (we’ve all been there), rest easy knowing Instagram won’t tattle on you when you unsend a message.
Just remember:
- There’s no alert when you unsend.
- But people might still see it if they’re fast.
- Use your unsend power wisely!
So go ahead, edit your digital history — Instagram’s got your back!